San Francisco
                                                      Loong Kong Youth Group
                                                      Mentorship
                                                      Program
                                                      What is the Loong Kong Youth Group?
                                                      The Loong Kong Youth Group (LKYG) is part of the
                                                      Loong Kong Tin Yee Association, located at 924
                                                      Grant Avenue, 4
th floor, San Francisco,
                                                      CA 94108.
                                                      The Youth Group consists mainly of a young mix of
                                                      members ranging from youngsters to college students
                                                      and beyond with the surnames of Lew, Quan, Jung,
                                                      and Chew (including variations of the spellings of the
                                                      surnames, such as Liu, Kwan, Cheung, Chiu, etc).
                                                      The Youth Group was originally formed in 1981 to
                                                      cater to the needs and activities of the offspring of the
                                                      elders of the Association and to perpetuate their
                                                      heritage through successive generations of new
                                                      youthful members.
                                                      What is the LKYG Mentorship Program?
                                                      The LKYG Mentorship Program is designed to
                                                      connect youth group members (those entering
                                                      high school or college) with mentors (youth
                                                      group members who are college graduates and
                                                      professionals) in a one year mentoring
                                                      relationship. The LKYG Mentorship Program
                                                      assists the youth group member in successfully
                                                      matriculating through high school and/or
                                                      college.
                                                      Mentees: High school students and college
                                                      students.
                                                      Mentors: College undergraduates, graduates,
                                                      and professionals.
                                                      The LKYG Mentorship Program provides a
                                                      positive one-on-one mentoring
                                                      relationship between mentees and
                                                      mentors in areas that focus on:
                                                      1. Personal, cultural, academic and daily life
                                                      issues.
                                                      2. Career planning, networking, advising and
                                                      development.
                                                      The LKYG Mentorship Programs objectives
                                                      are:
                                                      1. To recruit and effectively match youth group
                                                      members (participants) with LKYG mentors
                                                      in a mentoring relationship.
                                                      2. To establish positive individual mentoring
                                                      relationships between mentor and mentees,
                                                      so that program participants can recall their
                                                      experience as significant to their experiences
                                                      in college.
                                                      3. To prepare youth group members for a
                                                      successful graduation and life beyond
                                                      college.
                                                      4. To develop activities and events that assist
                                                      in facilitating the relationship among all
                                                      participants while exploring topics of
                                                      interests and issues of concern in a safe and
                                                      comfortable environment.
                                                      5. To increase participants knowledge of high
                                                      school/graduate/professional schools as well
                                                      as professional life and career settings.
                                                      What is a mentor?
                                                      The word "Mentor" comes from the Greek
                                                      language and has it roots in the terms "steadfast"
                                                      and "enduring." The term originates from
                                                      Homers epic 
The Odyssey, in which Ulysses is
                                                      getting ready to fight the Trojan War and
                                                      realizes that he must leave behind his heir,
                                                      Telemachus. Ulysses recognizes that he would
                                                      not be around to coach and teach Telemachus
                                                      and that he must get someone to complete
                                                      Telemachus education. He chooses his trusted
                                                      friend named Mentor to be the tutor because
                                                      Mentor is both wise and sensitive. The term
                                                      mentor has become synonymous in Western
                                                      thought with one who is a teacher, a guide, and a
                                                      friend, typically a wise and experienced person
                                                      helping a younger one with the transition to
                                                      adulthood.
                                                      Mentors are helpers. They do not, however,
                                                      guarantee success. Mentors play contradictory
                                                      roles - at times offering friendship and support,
                                                      while at other times posing tough challenges and
                                                      sharing critical insights. To be productive, this
                                                      delicate balance requires a reciprocal, trusting
                                                      relationship. This relationship takes time to
                                                      achieve and is rare, but when it occurs, it is the
                                                      third most powerful personal relationship
                                                      influencing human behavior (after family and
                                                      love relationships). The relationship between the
                                                      protégé and mentor changes over time and, in
                                                      fact, the roles of mentor and protégé may reverse
                                                      at times over the course of their involvement.
                                                      What is "Mentoring?"
                                                      "Mentoring" (
Cornell University, Cornell
                                                      Alumni Association. 1997) 
refers to a
                                                      recognized set of behaviors that people practice
                                                      to achieve success through a relationship with a
                                                      more experienced facilitator, coach, or guide. It
                                                      is based on the well documented phenomenon
                                                      that people who are just starting out need three
                                                      things to succeed: a dream (goal, vision, plan),
                                                      determination (ambition, perseverance, ability),
                                                      and someone who believes in them and can help
                                                      them shape their dream into reality.
                                                      "The two types of mentoring are natural
                                                      mentoring and planned mentoring. Natural
                                                      mentoring occurs through friendship,
                                                      collegiality, teaching, coaching, and counseling.
                                                      In contrast, planned mentoring occurs through
                                                      structured programs in which mentors and
                                                      participants are selected and matched through
                                                      formal processes"
                                                      What does a mentor do?
                                                      Mentors provide guidance on a variety of issues,
                                                      such as personal development, academic
                                                      planning and preparation, graduate school
                                                      options and opportunities, and career choices.
                                                      By sharing personal experiences with the
                                                      mentees they serve, experiences that contributed
                                                      to their own successful graduation from college,
                                                      mentors will directly contribute to a mentees
                                                      personal and professional development, as well
                                                      as offer a source of support.
                                                      Program Flexibility
                                                      The LKYG Mentorship Program is designed to
                                                      cater to the needs of both its mentors and
                                                      mentees. Mentors have the option of choosing to
                                                      contribute as much time as they desire to the
                                                      mentee and the program. Mentors also do not
                                                      need to live in the Bay area to participate.
                                                      Mentees are allowed to select their own mentor.
                                                      They also communicate with their mentor as
                                                      much or as little as they wish.
                                                      One-On-One Mentoring
                                                      The LKYG Mentorship Program is founded on
                                                      the principle that the best determinants of a
                                                      positive mentor-mentee relationship are, in fact,
                                                      the mentor and mentee involved; hence, the
                                                      most beneficial and satisfying aspect of the
                                                      program comes from the one-on-one relationship
                                                      that the mentor and mentee develop for
                                                      themselves. Communication between the mentor
                                                      and mentee can be in the form of direct mail,
                                                      email, phone calls, meetings, or LKYG events
                                                      (Annual Picnic, Ice Cream Socials, Movie
                                                      Nights, Cultural Field Trips, etc). The LKYG
                                                      Mentorship Program tries to facilitate
                                                      communication and contact by planning
                                                      activities for mentors and mentees to participate
                                                      in together.
                                                      Matching Process
                                                      The matching process is designed so that
                                                      mentees select their own mentors based on the
                                                      profiles that potential mentors have completed.
                                                      This promotes the best possible experience
                                                      within the Mentorship Program. Mentees are
                                                      the best judges of their preferences and needs.
                                                      In addition, mentees can feel more responsible
                                                      for their relationship with their mentor and more
                                                      involved with the program.
                                                      The LKYG Mentors complete a Mentor
                                                      Registration/Biography, which asks for
                                                      information intended to familiarize mentees with
                                                      the academic, career, and personal interests of
                                                      that mentor. In addition, mentors indicate their
                                                      reasons for becoming a mentor, and the type of
                                                      services they are able to provide. Mentees
                                                      review those biographies (through profiles on
                                                      the LKYG website or from the mentor binders
                                                      available at LKYG mentorship events) and
                                                      select three possible choices for their mentor,
                                                      ranking them in order of preference. The LKYG
                                                      Mentorship Program staff confirms their match,
                                                      and sends a copy of the Mentor Registration/
                                                      Biography form to the mentee. The mentor will
                                                      also receive a copy of the mentee profile that
                                                      was completed.
                                                      How do I become a mentee?
                                                      Becoming a mentee is very easy. Please fill out
                                                      the LKYG Mentee Application and submit it
                                                      to President Bovey Zhang.   You can also request
                                                      the application via email at 
boveyishere@gmail.com  -- fill it out and
                                                       submit it through email. For more information, contact  President
                                                      
                                                      Bovey Zhang.